Competition is something I thrive on and a critical component of my happiness. I don’t measure my success by being the best but by being my best. I also choose wisely in what I compete in – picking activities where my abilities, interests and life experiences provide an advantage. This may be offensive to some but I’m not a big fan of “everyone’s a winner” or “being just a finisher.” I have nothing against those who do but I feel life is too short to just dabble in things and be mediocre. If you’re going to do something, why not be great at it. No one ever says they want to be “mediocre” yet most people pick activities that predispose them to mediocrity. Even worse, some have the aptitude to be competitive but lack commitment to the hard work needed to excel. I only pick things that excite me, put a smile on my face, make my heart beat a little faster when asked about my passion…give me a reason to wake up early and welcome each day with a sense of excitement of what’s to unfold. I also choose wisely. I choose activities that provide a platform for me to excel, a logical plan on how I can get better if I’m willing to commit the time and hard work.
As a die-hard competitor, the two critical success factors I have learned to compete at the next level is:
- Help others grow in the sport.
- Keep my eye on the END GOAL.